halfway couple around a lot can be happy not many examples of gone through a failed marriage, some negative emotional inevitable, holding so find the attitude of individuals join as a partner to live again into the marriage not unusual. Especially middle-aged majority of these people, feel live to this age, whether patriotic, happiness is not happiness is not so important, as long as we can secure enough, so long as the conditions can be quite will choose components of a family to each getting what it needs. Younger people who choose to remarry, the original intention of most of them or want a happy marriage, but eventually farther and farther from happiness, no other reason than the following:

to compare.

between people there is no comparable, finger length, the advantages and disadvantages of each person is different, there is no perfect, perfect is not seen, Is the perfect it? Take immediate love to talk past comparison, this is not funny, since the past tense is so good how from?

even like to compare, in the heart Bibi’s no problem, right or wrong wrong fait accompli, even regret that is your own thing, when the quarrel is not take his ex-wife or ex-husband said that thing, if we really because the love was again entered the marriage, then a mouthful of his ex-wife or ex-husband remarried family taboo, and the first marriage always talks about ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend said is a reason in this way to spur the lover, the result can only run counter to.

two, money.

a question of money, the trust of the first marriage than remarried much higher, few completely independent economic accounting couples at first marriage, remarried couples each other completely undefended too little money, most of them are governing various money, because a cutting, because of property disputes before a marriage ended when the shadow is very difficult to forget, so do it again trust too difficult, can be money in marriage, despite a heavyweight, couples talk about money can not afford to hurt.

three children.

these days own father real mother is not good to do, the light shall not be re not, let alone the father stepmother, stepmother after his father well that should be wrong a little bit of that is a sinner, are jumped into the Yellow River also Xibu Qing thing. For children, the parents are always their own good, for the parents, the child must be good, so the children are happy stepfamilies difficult. If small children, the idea is not too tough, as long as it is really for her (him), there is always understood; afraid that teenagers are not small adults, the heart of hatred already entrenched, do not break up your vow give up, this case, if you do not know how to correctly handle, then this will be scattered very quickly.

, ex-wife / husband.

if their previous marriages had no children, then again between the need for really small; If you have children, so occasionally with the children and her ex-husband / wife to see a face, not a matter of what the sky is falling, indifferent and strongly to prevent the people are wrong, are the knot twice-divorced, should learn to manage their emotions.

five operations.

the same problems of marriage, if the first marriage, then the effort will be a little more, enough to want to solve the problem of confidence some; and negative emotions remarried, will be the last marriage failed. problem-solving, initiative and enthusiasm will be relatively low, divorce is much less than that produced with the first divorce, guilt, responsibility and pain, so it easier for divorced, remarried family stability relative first marriage to be a lot worse.

(Source: Japan Xinhua Press Network;: quiet sorrow)