the Jiangsu Province Zhenjiang City Dantu Xinfeng ancient Daishoji. The most prominent is not a Main Hall, the hall, but care more than 170 elderly people. Qiang Sun, the newspaper reporters of the nursing home photo
Nanjing Massacre survivors Fu Yongqing ancient Daishoji nursing homes received an elderly
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white-haired people who sent hair, the most painful experiences in the world than this. If black people are only one child, painful white-haired man is even more to be added. When the loss of one-child family is more and more difficult pension in front of approaching social problems, loss of independence by the Pension Road, more incomprehensible.
thedata show that China currently has more than one million missing child families. Nowhere to go as they age loss of independence in them, and some hid in the purity of the temple, like a hermit all day vegetarian Buddha, in online forums, online chat groups, and each other to talk, and hold together for warmth . However, these methods but that is only temporary solace on the surface.
theold saying goes, a rainy day, the raising of children to old age. The existing social security system should be improved to provide better support and protection, a large number of loss of independence by the crowd, urgent and loss hard to find a pension Road. This seems to be a no way road.
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over the age of seventy Ho Granny sitting alone on a wooden chair, walking aids dry hands on the front of the shelves, forlornly.
this almost motionless sat for half an hour, dull eyes or one, and then struggling insisted on walking frame, slowly stood up, step a move to stumble into The house is gone, leaving a weak back.
TheHe Granny one living alone. This is her normal life now: could not eat much rice can not sleep how long most of the time sat, the hearts of meditation and chanted.
theyears ago, she is still the only son of the minor illness claimed the lives of the widowed for many years, she eventually entered a nursing home.
thethis in the nursing home in the West Bank of the Beijing-Hangzhou Grand Canal, built by a local temple, the average age over 80 years of age and more than 100 elderly people in nursing, some widows and the needy who, some children women, but also the rest of his life.
the therecently a group called “live” images on the network spread wide, this nursing homes built in the temple, a time known.
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Students volunteer said, these elderly age, every meal points, eat a hot meal once a disease, beside someone to look after old people contented.
7 in late May, Xinfeng Town, Dantu District, Zhenjiang City, Jiangsu Province, the ancient Daishoji. China Daily reporter to the visits to this unique nursing homes.
the theancient Daishoji the edge of the village of a residential surrounded by some barren fields, the humble “gate”, but the two iron gate. Into the yard, the first thing you see is not heavy hall, but a yellow wall Hongzhu brown glazed tile three-story, this is a nursing home.
thenoon hours, the yard is very quiet, slight sound of the Buddha came. To see a visitor, wearing glasses and retaining workers Xiaofang palms together salute, say, the old people just to eat Zhaifan, to rest.
TheXiaofang Jiangsu University junior students, and summer to a nursing home volunteer. The duties of a dozen volunteers take care of old people eat. Each point to the rice, cooks do vegetarian, Xiaofang wipe clean article on the table one by one put the dishes, Dafan soup, old people quietly eat, and then received the bowl, clean up.
TheXiaofang said, older, every meal points, can eat a hot meal, a disease beside him someone to look after old people contented.
Thenursing homes have more than 170 elderly resident, mostly from the surrounding areas, but also from other places come here especially for.
the thethrough the first floor of the side door towards the backyard, close to the Main Hall of the left side there are a few houses are looked from the window, I saw each room are arrayed as two or three little beds, the elderly in the lunch break.
theyoung Long Zen Master declined a reporter’s interview, only shortly before the emergence of the network picture story of the hero to live in nursing homes courtyard old Pang Fu woman years of loss of independence and old Liu couples, the first time in many years this has been relatively calm, because of an interview has again been brought back the pain of the past, and now both sick in bed.
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millionaire Chen Deshun to get home, we saw only the mother’s ashes. He gave up the family property, and return to Buddhism, and vow to set up the dependent elderly lay nursing homes. The receiving temples nursing an old man, a survivor of the Nanjing Massacre. The population of Long Zen master, is the ancient Monkey King Abbot the Chang France Master.
The55-year-old Chang France the common name of Chen Deshun, early death of his father, due to family poverty, family dwelling in the temple, the Buddha from such root.
theteenager, Chen Deshun to Putuoshan monk. A few years, home to serve the mother’s brother is killed, a capsized mother hit a trance.
the thedesperation, monk for many years France Cheong had to return to secular life ring in accordance with the Buddha Law monk, and later at home, run factories, and gradually amassed a million of assets. The occasion of being the mother need to worry, one day in August 1995, Chen Deshun travel business negotiations, the death of 83-year-old mother’s sudden illness. “At that time communication unlike so developed, find me the past few days. Mother died the day is the seventh lunar month the first two days, it is the hottest time …
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was kneeling in the mother before the portrait of Chen Deshun heart vow: to treat the world for the elderly! The cuisine End Mother’s funeral, Chen Deshun to give up the property, return to Buddhism. In 1998, Chang method to the ancient Daishoji as a prison hospital.
TheZhenjiang ancient Daishoji Southern Dynasty was founded in 1500 years ago, frequently the Rise and Fall. Chang France came here, is full of shabby homes empty hall, while reconstruction of the hall, one side started to fulfill his promise.
The thebut founder of the charitable organizations of a religious nature’s homes, domestic no precedent, also operated by the government and civil affairs departments of social welfare nursing homes are not the same bid formalities difficulties. Procedures a year, to go out to run the Chang method in a traffic accident with the car people to death and four injuries, although the Chang method to keep their lives, but the right leg muscle atrophy, has left 13 nails, walking one high and one low. Before the Spring Festival in 2000, Chang France to Nanjing to visit an old scholar, pushed open the door into the room, surprised to find the room dirty bear, a 85-year-old Fu Yongqing old lady living alone, poor love.
theto inquire, Fu Yongqing elderly turned out to be the survivors of the Nanjing Massacre. Originally to take care of Fu Yongqing neighbors, gradually due to urban renewal demolition went their separate ways, leaving the old lady vegetarian Buddha lonely.
TheNew Year’s Eve lady Fu Cheong France received ancient Daishoji, become an elderly nursing homes received the first.
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Temple not cover finished, close to the halls of nursing homes has long been completed to stay more than ten years. Abbot Master Oh smile, said, This is also nothing about the matter, the first one to do is to spend money on food and clothing of the old-age people living in security, “the Buddha will not blame.
Thealso in May this year, the ancient Daishoji officially has set up the first Buddhist community elderly ranking Shi-nursing homes. The news spread, causing the reaction of the surrounding areas, Nanjing, Yangzhou, Changzhou, Wuxi, Shanghai and other places of a number of elderly lay some empty-nesters, have asked to live to the temple.
This is the interesting thing: Under normal circumstances, the old folks’ homes for the elderly must be signed by their children, such as children, need unit guarantees. In real life, many elderly people want to live do not live inside.
the ancient Daishoji nursing homes “care codes of practice in family dependents consent” provisions, but if it is a loss of independence or widowed, do not be shut out .
theChang France Master told reporters far, ancient Daishoji has accumulated adoption nearly 500 widowed elderly or children, but elderly persons living alone, there are more than 1,000 elderly people with care The hospital has entered into a nursing protocol in preparation for occupancy.
thejust a nursing home for a moment, not so great reception capacity. Chang said that France, the end of 2002, nearly 70 million first building nursing floor completed, the next four years, they built three, a total of more than 70 rooms, bathroom, dining room, boiler room and a clinic, an area more than 5000 square meters. While the ancient Daishoji hall repair has not yet completed, the edge of the back wall, there is a large open space covered with weeds, some building materials stacked messy, it seems to continue to build a temple.
theTemple not cover finished, close to the halls of the nursing floor, but a much completed and access to the elderly to stay. Chang method with a smile Oh, say, this is also nothing about the matter, the first one to do, is to spend the money to the safety of food and clothing of the old-age people living Buddha will not blame.
Thechildless elderly, nursing homes do not charge a penny, basic necessities of all the nursing homes to bear. Pensions for the elderly, the implementation of the “semi-public service,” 10 “one day a month 300 yuan.
Thethis money to eat, certainly not enough water, electricity, and the drugs, Chang France admitted that “the temple a year ‘subsidizing ’20 ten thousand yuan. This money depends entirely on alms. Sometimes, seeing no rice, the temple to give some money lay called “inverted inverted grievances, then, who lay in a grain shop bought rice, and then notify the temple to pick up.
nursing homes for the elderly to feed and clothe, but also pay attention to their mental health, worldly hardship to the Scriptures say to seek relief. Nursing homes more than 170 elderly people, average age 82 years, including more than 30 people over the age of 90, the oldest 98 years old.
Thefirst admitted to nursing homes, the survivors of the Nanjing Massacre Fu Yongqing elderly passed away in June 2004. Up to now, more than 130 elderly people in nursing homes completed the last stop. Nursing homes to set up a special reborn in Memorial Hall, dedicated to the portrait of the deceased.
The2006 In the spring, Chang France to Beijing, to visit the widow of the former president of the Buddhist Association of China Zhao Puchu Miss Chen Bangzhi. Chang reported by nursing homes. Chen Pang woven with emotion, his wife unfinished business, completed a small temple in Zhenjiang. Original ZhaoPiaoChu who had been envisaged the construction of an elderly ranking Shi-nursing homes, adoption, living alone, but unfortunately failed to achieve.
TheToday, Nanjing, Suzhou and other places some of the monasteries built nursing homes. Buddhism advocates “unconditional compassion, with great compassion, able to practice in nursing homes and other public charities. Close to a four-character associated language the layer the ancient Daishoji nursing homes Loumen glass: love to spread the human Tsz all over the world, Streamer is indebted gratitude. France Cheong, compassion, care for the weak, this is the doctrine of Buddhism, in fact, we have only done a little thing.
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be able to live in nursing homes, it is an other loss of independence, the envy of things. Most of the provisions of the nursing home, no children do not accept.
Theface a huge loss of independence or the population of the elderly, the vulnerable widows and orphans, some experts have proposed the concept of community-based pension “, but want to become a reality far from being a paper about that so easy.
June this year, more than 80 loss of independence from across the country, through the chat group together, to the State Family Planning Commission Letters and Visits Office of the problem, requiring the introduction of policies to solve the pension problems of this population .
Theafter a night stick, they are committed to: State Family Planning Commission submitted to the State Council in 3-4 months, developed an institutional framework, and agreed to the establishment of communication mechanisms with the loss of independence.
Theheating in online forums or chat groups, loss of independence in the helplessness, self-seeking another way of life and pension attempt to obtain the temporary solace of the spirit level. Ancient Daishoji nursing homes, loss of independence. “Leafless yellow and sometimes also on the chat tool, in the group chat a few words.
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Unfortunately, intimate group where if people feel the warmth is only temporary. Hebei’s “ugly duckling,” said the group is warm, but also a limited capacity, how can we do?
Theusers’ incomplete de perfect? sadness “is the construction of migrant workers, in Zigong, Sichuan Province, a 26-year-old, he engaged in public welfare had been almost five years. In April of this year, he created a loss of independence chat exchange group, known as the country’s largest online exchange platform for the loss of independence “dreams come true warmth loss alone to share their group”, group number 151 842 701, and soon the loss of independence in more than 170 across the country to join .
of8 in early May, “sadness,” China Daily reporter said he was concerned initially that the folk adoption the public welfare, exposed to the loss of independence by groups. “Sadness” Clearly, if no personal experience of others in fact, never be able to realize that the pain of the lost son, to build the group’s purpose is to gather together the loss of independence by online heating. The same boat, talk to each other, some better than others, mercy-style comfort, the effect. “
thethese talk in the chat group looks very sad. Just look at the screen name to know their hearts have been broken: “Guangdong? Old who takes care of”, “Shaanxi? Disconnected soul” …… Shaanxi loss of independence, “the old ants” network signatures “365 dark bitter and pain! “
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Speaking of lost son often insomnia, Chongqing “Yongchuan” of say, do not sleep too long during the day, or people like us is really hard to sleep, sleep it is easy to think of …
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was talking about the child was still alive “bad” remorse “Yongchuan persuasion, not think about what to do for the children, grew more and more sad, or think about how to forget it. “Yongchuan” exclaimed the future only live for themselves, anyway, before we can do nothing for their sake, but they still vote with their feet.
the ofGuangdong “heating” in the temple the Merit Hall to buy a memorial tablet to Aiko, every day, monk chanting for them, my heart is like to suffer, the children have suffered way too much! Yunnan’s “bitter buckwheat” depressed, and said, bitter cupful only drink ah …
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“flute child mothers” Speaking of recent days is too hot. The main group of “sadness”, then open the air-conditioning, the temperature a little lower. Shenyang’s “Hung” Buddist, and heart temperature, air conditioning not been resolved …
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there is no savior, to be happy only by ourselves. Chongqing grind for dust in the group so to console the people of the same fate. Hubei’s “sea” agree with that, we can only adjust slowly in terms of ideology, others say no matter how much in vain, as the same go for a walk, no money I send you a toll …
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Unfortunately, such an intimate, then makes people feel warm just a temporary. Hebei’s “ugly duckling,” said the group is warm, but also a limited capacity, how can we do?
“sadness,” the idea is to first get them together, and then learn from the experience of foreign countries, the establishment of the loss of independence ‘Association, through mutual assistance pension. This is a kind of folk to explore the regime. He was prepared to the tourist area in the the Zigong home returning farmland to forests, to convene an Walks Guanchiguanzhu accommodation I have to bear, let them get some fresh air. “Then we can work together to discuss self-service pension rules, how to gather funded, “there is no possible.
“sadness” construction workers to do the integrated wiring of a building up to a month to earn thousands of dollars, the average monthly salary of 8000 yuan. Family know that I’ve done this, not against, not to interfere. A reception to 30, free to live on the 10 days half a month no problem! “
Thethe idea in the loss of independence, who caused the response, it was suggested to the New Year, and then engage in that time, the most lonely people … “
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as a mother, I was already dead, and buried the child at the same time, I also died, but as a loss of independence, I am alive, no choice but to live, and live in despair …
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regardless of the idea of ”sadness” moment can not be achieved, as a volunteer, he and a group loss of independence or would like to break a world to come. “Always online chat, not a right way and sometimes more and talk more gloomy.
the57-year-old Shaanxi Pucheng Yang also chat, in fact, he did not understand the network, just the addition of three similar loss of independence group, “look, very few to speak. “Sometimes I watched, I recall the sad thing.
Yang the only son of acute illnesses in the age of 24 died, a few days to August 17, three years … “That year, the young man to be married, the marriage certificate picking up sick to death did not find out is Shabing …
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Yang and his wife are farmers, the rural people of this age, there is little birth to a baby. “Policy advocated by the state it is the truth, we small people can not understand, but also do not complain, I had wanted to open, and think so much futile. Country to see you you can not see it no way. “
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year the Spring Festival, Yang received the village cadres phone “to the country go pick up the money. Rural one-child or two female households, after the men’s 60-year-old woman after age 55, $ 50 a month. The special circumstances of the old Yang, a month to give dozens of “January 130.” Yang contented.
5 acres of land theold Yang, older, rented out to another year of income of the family, but 3000 yuan. Older, did not play workers of the future country? Difficult Chang (Shaanxi dialect, difficult, not easy to do) there is no way, Yang said. Live in nursing homes? Where’s the money? See step by step, and can only be mixed with every day. “
the theloss flawless land, “mixed”, which is almost common predicament faced by the loss of independence by the crowd. China Health Statistics Yearbook 2010 data released by the Ministry of Health, the 15-year-old -30 years old only child of the total number of at least 1.9 million people per 100,000 population in this age mortality in at least 40 people. Infer from this lost child families in China exceeded one million, and each year 76,000 new.
beginning in 2007, the State Family Planning Commission launched a nationwide one-child disability death of a family support system for experimental work. The first batch of pilot areas in nine provinces of Guizhou, Gansu, Shanghai, Jiangsu, Shaanxi, Baoji, Weinan, and Shangluo three cities are also the pilot areas. Systems and regulations, couples can also included in the assistance to the scope of the woman at least 49 years of age, per person per month for twelve hundred dollars.
group of loss of independence, then respond to national call only a good “, devoted themselves to bringing up their children wait for old age, the child not to run the nursing home, do not collect, illness, surgery and even did not sign word.
the“We hope to go early and children ‘reunion’.” an old man said to the rest of his life in the ancient Daishoji nursing homes. Beijing’s loss of independence. “Flute child mothers” in the chat group, flute child’s mother is dead, and buried the child at the same time, I also died. However, as a the loss of independence, I am alive, no choice but to live, and live in despair …


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